Let’s call it a Golden Bachelor “divorce” for what it really is

Golden Bachelor “divorce”

This morning, from the rush of making lunch, unloading the dishwasher, and taking the kids to school, I was still in a daze at 8:32 this morning when a text message rang on my cell phone. . Who would have thought? The golden couple has already separated. I didn’t think they were going to be together forever, but I was guessing they would be too embarrassed to call it quits so soon. I forgot; is this a reality show.

Opinion comes from my friend and mentor Anne, who got hooked on The Golden Bachelor at Slate’s suggestion (she was 67 years old when the show’s final episode aired). I wrote this great article about life as a single person (in November of last year). It took a while. Who is she talking about? Ah, Jerry Turner and Teresa Nist, the older lovebirds triumphant at the end of Jerry’s performance as a 70-something bachelor. It’s officially done. Talk about “out of sight” and “outside of mind.”

As Scott Nover wrote in Friday’s Slate magazine about the end of the couple’s three-month marriage, “American attention span for Jerry and Teresa’s abbreviated love story is over.” Because I spent most of the day trying to figure out why these headlines about the golden couple’s divorce bothered me so much. Yes, I admit I’ve been following the details all season. In the end, I was even able to reconcile with her counterpart.

However, I found their wedding, which was broadcast live on TV, to be boring and boring. And as they gave more interviews about their future together, I wondered: Are these two really moving away from their respective grandchildren in Indiana and New Jersey, as they claimed… South Will they settle in Charleston, Carolina?

The answer turns out to be no. They will be in Splitsville according to a rehearsal announcement Friday morning on Good Morning America. But I wouldn’t call it a divorce. Just as their relationship was a “marriage,” it is at best a “divorce.” In the case of divorce, property is divided. Discuss family travel and spending time with the kids. Decisions about who receives how much from pension schemes and shared small cars.

Divorce requires difficult decisions. This is especially true when it comes to end a marriage. As we commonly imagine, Jerry and Teresa never had enough time to put together everything they needed for a divorce. Deciding to divorce can take years for couples, even if they have to have several big conversations about the breakup. – How much discussion was there actually? They got married in January!

Now they could be discussing the Golden Bachelor money, but I doubt it. It appears that a large amount of documents with ABC were sorted out several months ago. They certainly didn’t have a joint bank account at the time of their marriage, so they probably both had their funds deposited directly into their own funds via ACH – no stress!

Just in case it’s unclear, I’m speaking from experience. I’m divorced. And because my ex-husband and I are incredibly close and devoted parents and forever family, we probably have one of the best divorce stories you’ll ever hear. We have keys to each other’s houses and see each other all the time. Last weekend, my daughter was at home with her (her second) husband while I was at a concert with my first husband. Could you please follow this? That always confuses people!

But getting here wasn’t easy. It was tough because divorce is really hard! Even if you are like us and don’t have a home and things are relatively simple, it is difficult to analyze things and emotions that you have lived with for many years. In the best case scenario, you could find yourself in the same situation as us.

But at the end of your life together, a lot of things come to light, and even if you try to keep them in the proverbial closet, you’ll often never be able to completely clean up the mess. Everyone I know who has been divorced is doing their best. But even when things are as amicable as possible, there’s some kind of persistent sadness, and it’s often worse than that.

It’s not a shame that Jerry and Teresa were saved from this remaining rubble. But let’s call the end of “marriage” their what it is: a breakup. They couldn’t decide where to live and things didn’t work out. It may be a legal divorce, but it’s only a short-term dissolution of the engagement.

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